kkmensah said: Love your blog My black queen, the type of man you are looking for exist. But in so many ways most of the good God fearing black men have been referred to as not rich enough, boring, not fun or real by our queens. I for one love my black queens, (I don't hate or discriminate. I love all races regardless of colour or creed). I married my queen and lavished her with good things, did my part in my capacity. But she said it wasn't enough. I work hard for every penny. We exist but are unappreciated.
My post was not an invitation for male tears.
You got married. I’m not sure why you would take what I posted to go on about how black “good guys” tm are being ignored for money or being boring. You are out the game. There is no reason for your input to be given.
But since you are here, I’ll make this a teachable moment.
Women should have standards. They should not attempt to be with someone just because the guy trying to pursue them thinks he’s good enough. Black women are not villains because they don’t want to date certain guys.
I’m always at a loss when men demand that they be settled for. If a woman isn’t for you it’s not the end of the world. Why would they want a woman, who has found for whatever reason that the two are not a match, to try stick it out just because the guy likes her?
There are people that would be happy with a broke guy. Wonderful
There are people that will be happy with a boring guy. Splendid
There are women that will not want to date either and that is okay too.
The fact that some women do not want to date either guy is not a reason for men to be shitty. It’s okay to not be chosen for those reasons.
Dating someone that is not right for you is like trying to be comfortable in a pair of shoes a half size too small.
If you really love black women, you would not love them to settle.
i’ll never understand men who want women to date them just because they’re there.